Mismatched Glasses

I suspect that within a few years, the Global Methodist Church, which is looking less and less global and more and more parochial, will be sitting on the end of their beds, looking wistfully at nothing, and wishing they had more glasses in their cabinet.”

Reclaiming Christmas (and Advent and Epiphany)

Then January 6, we opened gifts, and you know what came with each of the three gifts we gave or received? A story. Because each of us got to tell the person why it was their beautiful, or practical, or memorable gift. Every gift came with an intention, and the gifts were far more precious because of the limitation. And because of the thoughtfulness.

We Can't Do This Alone

When that request came in, I felt the pain on both sides. I felt the exhaustion of the medical care workers who this round had to see young people gasp for their last breath, for a reason that was completely preventable. But I also felt the pain on this side. I felt the restriction of call. I was supposed to be there with them. I was supposed to do some of the heavy lifting of that burden.”

Is It Against the Bible to Buy or Sell a Dog?

So my mother asked me, “Is that true? Is it true that the Bible tells you not to buy or sell dogs?”

I rubbed my temples and shut my eyes. I don’t know, I thought. This is one of those moments when it does not pay to be a biblical scholar. There are a lot of weird things in the Bible.

Our Common Story

“And now we are not divided by devices that are feeding us what we want to hear. We are gathered around the campfire again, and we are sharing in our common humanity, and we are living as a people in community. We have a story that we all share. And that, my friends, is a rare and sacred moment these days.”

Standing Vigil

And right now, every pastor who is currently serving and who plans to continue to serve, is standing in the thin space in between. Fully present with those in mourning. But also casting hope for the life that is yet to come. And I cannot think of a more appropriate posture than standing, holding an iPhone, livestreaming a graveside service, a steady posture with one foot in the now, and one foot in the yet-to-come.”

Hearing, and Loving, Judas

We have competing narratives, but we keep stopping at the what. What does so-and-so believe? Well, that is contrary to what I believe, so I am going to dismiss that altogether.

But what if we instead asked Why? Why does so-and-so believe that?”

It's 2020 and We Gotta Talk about Meat Sacrificed to Idols

“Now, I admit, I figured as I scanned through this letter a few weeks ago, that this would be a section we would kind of blow past. Who cares about the debate about whether we eat meat sacrificed to idols or not? It is a non-issue today. But as I prepared for this week’s lesson, I could not help but notice that if I substituted “wearing masks” for “eating meat sacrificed to idols”, we had an incredibly applicable passage of Scripture here.”

Did the Romans Swipe Left or Swipe Right?

“And now, in the darkness, having spent the day surrounded by silence, the weight of this transition is sitting heavy on me. I have texted some friends, and in the course of that exchange, I realized how much my pep talks about this pastoral transition sound like eHarmony commercials. I am trying to sell myself on the success and longevity of relationships that start online. And once I made that connection, I could not help but think…

‘Did the people of my congregation swipe left, or swipe right?’”

The System Counts on Your Exhaustion (or Your ADD)

My father was a plaintiff in a landmark civil rights case in Arkansas 25 years ago.

I always give people a minute to absorb that. Most of my friends have never seen my dad. He was a bit of a recluse, really all my life but definitely after the case. But in case you are looking at me and wondering, yes, he was a white man. And yes, he filed a racial discrimination suit. He was, as far as we could determine, the first person in Arkansas to file racial discrimination… due to association.”